One of the scholars had a large appetite but a small income. He mentioned his situation to a nobleman who respected him. The nobleman frowned at his request, finding it inappropriate for a man of learning to ask for help.
"Do not approach a dear friend with a frown,
For you will make his life bitter as well.
When you go to ask for something, go with a fresh and smiling face,
For a cheerful demeanor will not close doors."
It is said that the nobleman slightly increased his stipend but greatly reduced his respect. When the scholar did not see the usual affection after a few days, he said:
"How bad are the meals that are obtained through humiliation,
The pot is set up, but dignity is lowered.
My bread has increased, but my honor has decreased,
Poverty is better than the disgrace of begging."
